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This is what honeymoons look like in 2021

WOTC’s Kaye Holland meets the couples making memories in the midst of a global pandemic 

Prior to the pandemic, honeymoons had become grand affairs with newlyweds jetting off to idyllic, far-flung locales like the Maldives, Tahiti and Thailand.

Then Covid-19 hit and the resulting travel restrictions, combined with safety concerns, forced brides and grooms up and down the country to pull the plug on their original honeymoon plans.

Yet despite the fact that the pandemic derailed their honeymoon in the Caribbean sun in a luxurious adult-only resort, Sofia Petkar and fiancee William Phillpotts, are staying positive.

Petkar told WOTC: “The initial disappointment of two missed weddings and a luxury honeymoon on a white sand beach was painful but we’ve come to terms with it now and the truth is a big wedding and blowout honeymoon isn’t what matters. Our extravagant plans may have been binned but our love hasn’t been cancelled.”

She continued: “Being cooped up together throughout the pandemic has just reinforced that I have made the right choice of life partner. As long as Billy and I are together, I am okay with scaled-down celebrations. A honeymoon shouldn’t be about bragging rights anyway.”

The Brentford-based couple are now planning to elope in Las Vegas as soon as America opens its borders to UK travellers  – which could be sooner than you think given both nations are enjoying smooth and speedy vaccine roll-outs.

They intend to use the money saved from scrapped stag and hen dos, a big wedding and a fortnight’s far-flung honeymoon on a downpayment on their first house. “In some ways, it [their ruined original wedding plans and honeymoon] has been a blessing in disguise,” shared Petkar.

Petkar and Phillpotts aren’t the only couple to have learnt that less is more. Kathi Kamleitner tied the knot with her husband,Thomas Sutherland, in a small Scottish ceremony last October. 

Only five people – including the couple, witnesses and the officiant –  were able to attend as coronavirus continued to tear at the fabric of British life. The low-key wedding was “lovely” but a far cry from the lavish wedding the pair had originally planned for hundreds of guests in Kamleitner’s hometown of Vienna.

The newlyweds had been due to spend their honeymoon in Japan -– “our ultimate bucket list destination” – but the coronavirus had other ideas. Prohibited from hopping on a plane, the Glasgow spouses have gone back to basics and booked a pandemic honeymoon in a dark sky park in Scotland.

“Scotland enjoys some of the darkest skies in Europe thanks to large areas of low light pollution,” revealed Kamleitner – who moved to the Celtic nation for university, fell in love with the land and never left.  “It was definitely love at first sight with the country, not the man,” joked Kamleitner who hosts acclaimed podcast Wild for Scotland.

Kamleitner said: “While we feel a little sad that we can’t experience something completely foreign and new to us both, it's no one's fault and there’s nothing we can do about it. Ultimately it’s about us being away together and celebrating the massive step we have taken in getting married. 

“We’re now looking forward to our Scottish astronomical adventure and, by having a domestic honeymoon, we are supporting our own hospitality community in their hour of need.” 

Another silver lining? “With the money we saved on the Vienna wedding and Japan honeymoon, we were in a position to put in an offer on a house – something we hadn’t envisaged being able to do for at least a few years – and now have a lovely house,” beamed Kamleitner.

American rock band, Dave Matthews Band (DMB), once famously sang “Turns out it’s not where but who you're with that really matters” and the pandemic has reminded us that a honeymoon should never be about earning air miles. Rather it’s about connecting as a couple and savouring being in love – even if that means staying put in Britain.

“Love can be local,” stressed Eleanor Keymer, a bespoke honeymoon and travel planner, who believes “it’s still important to mark your momentous occasion in some way.  At the end of the day, how often do you get married?” 

Keymer continued:  “If you’re unable to travel on safari to Africa, why not visit the Port Lympne reserve in Kent that’s home to over 700 animals? Had a Caribbean beach break booked? Sure the weather can be iffy but both the Pembrokeshire Coast and Cornwall boast beautiful, white-sand beaches.”

She added: “You can always revert to your original Honeymoon plans after the pandemic is over but in the meantime enjoy the upside of staying local: no jet-lag!”

Read my piece for JAT here: https://www.justabouttravel.net/2021/06/11/this-is-what-honeymoons-look-like-in-2021/



Five celebrity honeymoon destinations

Ever wondered where the stars like to head for their honeymoon? Well wonder no more! The Sybarite has the low-down on the luxurious destinations that the A listers flock to, for a romantic escape

Seychelles, Caribbean
Celebrities love the Seychelles thanks to its winning combination of beauty (this 115 island archipelago boasts soft, sandy beaches shaded by palms and lapped by crystal clear waters) and privacy (the Seychelles government has introduced laws to protect the privacy of holidaying stars).
As such, the Seychelles has played host to the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge, who honeymooned on North Islandback in May 2011, as well as Hollywood royalty: the Beckhams celebrated their 10th wedding anniversary on the island in 2009, while George Clooney and Amal Alamuddin and Salam Hayek and French husband Francois-Henri Pinault have all honeymooned here.
 

County Cork, Ireland
Reality star Kim Kardashian and her rapper husband Kanye West shunned traditional honeymoon destinations - here’s looking at the Maldives - in favour of, um, Ireland. That’s right: the power couple famously flew to the Emerald Isle for their honeymoon having fallen in love with the ‘calm’ of the Irish countryside on a previous visit. “We spent Kanye's bday in Ireland a few years back & fell in love with it! Its such a calming relaxing place!” Kim tweeted by way of explanation.
The fame hungry pair checked into the Castlemartyr Resort and Castle Oliver - a five star hotel in Cork which was declared the grandest hotel in Ireland by Conde Nast Traveller magazine, no less, in 2015. During their trip, Kimye were spotted hiking in the Ballyhoura Mountains, in addition to enjoying a helicopter ride over the Dingle Peninsula.

The Maldives
Katy Perry and Russell Brandand Tom Cruise and Katie Holmes are just two of the high profile (former) couples who spent their honeymoons in the Maldives. And for good reason: these 1,190 coral islands, in the middle of the Indian ocean, are celebrated for their deep blue seas, Bounty advert beaches and sumptuous hotels such as the One & Only Reethi Rah.
American singer Stacy Ann Ferguson - aka Black Eyed Peas singer Fergie - and her hunky husband Transformers star, Josh Duhamel, holed up at the Maldive’s most glamorous resort, where they were snapped canoeing, taking cooking classes, private yoga and tennis lessons and spa treatments. Thinking of following in their famous footsteps? It will cost you. The couple’s suite reportedly cost £10,000 for the week.

Barbados, Caribbean
Barbados may just be the hottest honeymoon destination du jour. Many top celebrities - like legendary performer Barbara Streisand and actor James Brolin and Westlife’s Kian Egan - have chosen to honeymoon in Barbados, aka Rihanna’s beautiful birthplace..  As have sports stars: golfing aceTiger Woods chose Barbados as the venue for his ill fated 2004 wedding to Elin Nordegren.
The jet set come for the first class restaurants, chic nightlife, championship golf courses and exclusive resorts like Sandy Lane - a favourite of Beyonce and Jay Z, Cindy Crawford, Donatella Versace and Simon Cowell.

Paris, France
“Paris is always a good idea.” So said Audrey Hepburn (who would have celebrated her 87th birthday last month) in the 1954 film Sabrina. Audrey Hepburn was absolutely right: Paris is always a good idea - especially for a romantic getaway.
Sacha Baron Cohen and his stunning wife Isla Fisher,  singer Lily Allen and spouse Sam Cooper and actress Anne Hathaway and her other half Adam Schulman, are just a few of the power couples who chose the city of love as their honeymoon destination. Blonde beauty Reese Witherspoon and second husband, Jim Toth, were also papped putting on a romantic display of affection, while honeymooning in chic Paris.